01 - Preheat the oven to 400°F. Lightly butter a medium gratin or baking dish and set aside.
02 - In a medium saucepan over medium heat, melt 2 tbsp butter. Add the finely chopped shallot and minced garlic, sautéing for 2–3 minutes until softened and fragrant.
03 - Pour in the heavy cream, whole milk, softened cream cheese, and Dijon mustard. Stir continuously until the cream cheese has fully melted and the mixture is smooth.
04 - Reduce heat to low. Gradually add the shredded Gruyère and sharp cheddar cheese, stirring until completely melted and incorporated. Season with paprika, cayenne pepper, sea salt, and black pepper.
05 - Gently fold in the jumbo lump crab meat, chopped parsley, and chives, taking care not to break apart the crab lumps. Remove the saucepan from heat.
06 - Spoon the crab and cheese mixture evenly into the prepared baking dish, spreading it into an even layer.
07 - In a small bowl, combine the panko breadcrumbs, melted butter, and grated Parmesan cheese. Sprinkle the mixture evenly over the surface of the crab filling.
08 - Bake for 20–25 minutes until the filling is hot and bubbly and the topping is deep golden brown.
09 - Remove from the oven and let rest for 5 minutes. Garnish with additional fresh parsley and chives if desired, and serve warm.